Self Description: I'm not going to pretend I ended up on a dating app because I had nothing better to do. I'm here because I actually want to meet someone. Radical concept, I know. What I'm not interested in is the version of this where we text for a month and a half and nothing happens. I can tell pretty quickly whether there's something worth exploring and if there is, I'd rather just find out in person. I don't need it to be a whole thing. I want someone who's actually ready. Not "ready in theory" but really ready. Someone who feels something and doesn't talk himself out of it. That's genuinely it.

Comments: Honestly? Someone who is done with the part where nothing is defined and no one says what they actually want. I've got enough going on in my life, I'm not looking to manage ambiguity in my personal life too. I want someone who, when he likes someone, just does something about it. Like a normal person who decided he wants to see where something goes and isn't embarrassed about that. Someone who has his own thing. Doesn't need to be impressive on paper, just needs to actually care about something and have some kind of inner life. Someone I can have a real conversation with. And look I work with people every day who are scared to take the next step. I get it, it's human. But at some point you have to just move. So if you're the kind of person who feels something and then acts on it, who can sit across from someone and be present, who isn't afraid to take her hand and see what happens then honestly, what are you waiting for.